Keeping the mind busy.

So we are on day 3 of my long weekend.

I have not been well for the entire time but the brain although running a little slower than normal has been ticking over. I have also managed to sort a few things out at the allotment and at home. Sadly not any of the big jobs on the list.

Kind of finished my whip. Not how I intended to finish it off. But it is only a first attempt and have learned a lot and will do things differently for the next one

In case your wondering yes it does crackūüėĀ

Completing this got me thinking. I do enjoy making things. Always have. But like everything else time and money. I plan to make more paracord stuff. I have the spark of some kind of harness forming in my head that can be used for restraint.

I have made a couple of cuff restraints and those of you that follow sweetgirl will have seen her night time collar.

I would also try my hand at leather working.

All in all,I think my mind needs a problem to solve. I don’t seem to be able to just sit down and do nothing.


What to do ?

So I am sure I am not alone in this but I have vacation days that have to be taken or I lose them. So between now and the end of March I have a number of long weekends. Unfortunately sweetgirl has to work.

So today is the start of a long weekend for me and I am at a loss as what to do. Don’t get me wrong I have a list of thinks I could be doing but seem to be lacking the motivation to do some of them and the weather is a factor for some( a little cold and wet at the moment)

As I type I am being pestered by our female cat. I can only assume she wants something other than food but not sure what. Or is just put out at the fact I am at home and all her cat friends can’t come round.

It is times like this I really miss our dog. We would gave been out walking by now.

I know what your thinking get another. And that makes sense and my heart agrees with you. However my head says I don’t have time to train him/her. Although the cats grew up with our old dog. There is no saying now they have had three years without a dog in the house they would take well to it. Also it would add another complication to our D/s lives as we would need to make sure our children are prepared to take on looking after them in our absence when we go away.

So what to do ????

Think I will take a little walk and go and check on my allotment although it is too wet from al the rain lately to do anything. The cold temperature(2C) doesn’t help either although with any luck it may kill off the slug eggs.

So hope you a have a good day.


Hello from me.

So Mr H you started a blogging site then don’t blog.

The answer to this question is fairly simple.¬† I am never one for pushing my ideas/beliefs¬† on others.¬† ¬†If someone asks my opinion on a subject and I feel I know enough about it,¬† I will give it to them.¬† I learned from a very early age that I didn’t and couldn’t know everything.¬† ¬†This, to my mind means I cannot comment on everything.

As far a being a Dominant is a D/s relationship I can only speak of what works for sweetgirl and I.  We are still learning and will no doubt make mistakes.

I was recently asked to do a post about the first 6 months or so of that journey which can be found here

I will warn you now, post are likely to be….

  1. infrequent.
  2. badly written.
  3. make you cry if you are a English teacher.

For this I make no apology as it is me that is writing and not Shakespeare, George Orwell or Charles Dickens.